NO, no sorry to tell you, that isn't how it works. I know that everyone who ever watched The Wedding Planner with Jennifer Lopez, has decided that just watching the movie, made them experienced enough to become a Wedding Planner, but I'm here to tell you it just isn't true. I'll even go so far as to say that the people who spent that $500 to become "certified" as a planner, that doesn't always cut it either.
So, you planned your own wedding...
The biggest issue here is that you were the BRIDE and you weren't involved in any part of the process that allowed you to see the major issues that a planner handles. When working directly with the vendor it is a one time deal. You do your meetings and find the person who you decided would work best for you. That's not going to help everytime. The vendor that worked best for you and with you, won't be the BEST vendor for all of your clients. The vendors you might not have liked, they might be the vendors that would work best with some of your clients. So that part of your exeprience is thrown out the door.
Now onto the ceremony. This might seem like a small part, but to a good planner, this is a BIG deal. Handling the family, friends and bridal party through the ceremony is a scary process. You want everyone to be on their best behavior, do the right thing but still have fun. All the while you have this very limited timeline to get everything, exactly right. All eyes are on the ceremony, if the music is off, the bridal party too slow or too fast or if the bride doesn't come out at just the right time, that's all on YOU. When you were the bride, you were in that moment, YOU were the one walking down the aisle, ready to get married. That left you out of a huge chunk of that stress/mess. So there goes your ceremony experience.
The key is, you weren't working with a Bride, you WERE the Bride. That's the point, that's what is the difference.
NOW, with that being said, everyone starts somewhere. Every Wedding Planner that is giving you a hard time because you are a "new" wedding planner, started out as a "NEW" Wedding Planner. No one starts out with 10 years of experience, that's just the black and white of it. The issue isn't the experience, it is coming in without "knowing" enough, not having not done enough.What should you know- (write this down) 
-Know that the people that plan weddings, take this very seriously. This is a real career and they have invested money, time and their life into doing and being the absolute best. If that isn't your interest, then maybe rethink becoming a Wedding Planner.-Know that the people that plan weddings, dedicate their social time, personal time and "work" time, to wedding planning. This isn't something they do in their "free" time, this is typically ALL they do with their time. Ready for that aspect of planning?
-Know that pricing for planners is based on experience and experience is what matters. It isn't to say that you can't be a good "new" planner but you should understand that trying to undercut other planners on pricing, isn't doing anyone any favors. You are basically keeping the price expectations for a Wedding Planner down so low, that when you are ready to raise your pricing, you have setup a market to expect "cheap" pricing and now your stuck doing Day of for $300.
-Know that (most) other wedding planners WILL help you along the way. I'm more than happy to give advice, have meetings and give feedback on your process through becoming a planner. You just have to be honest. I would absolutely appreciate an email that said "I want to become a planner, can you help?" More than I would anything else.
-Know that "fibbing" to make yourself look better or more experienced is not okay, ever. You are who you are right now and accept your level of experience and work with it. Don't try to compare yourself to more experienced planners because you can't.
-Know that being "sneaky" or getting a bad reputation with other wedding planners won't work out for you in the long run. No one Wedding Planner has control of the market in any region but if enough people dislike you or don't trust you, you aren't going to get any assistance along the way and eventually that will hurt your ability to grow.
-Know that you will eventually be contacted by another "new" planner that wants to start Wedding Planning. Think about what you would like them to say/do/be when talking with you. How would you like your "new" competition to handle themselves? Set the bar HIGH, so that it stays HIGH for all of us.
There is my feedback on "new" planners. I think the more good planner the better the industry becomes. I must seriously emphasize the word GOOD in reference to planners.
What do you think? "New" planners, how tired are you of hearing the gripes from experienced planners? What do you wish everyone that is learning about your "new" interest in planning would know?
Happy Planning!
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